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Wording for the memorial candle in the wedding program? - wedding program wording note

I'm getting married in August 2009. Between my girlfriend and I lost 5 members of this family, we were close. My grandfather, father, grandmother, great-grandparents. Light a candle in memory of her. I hope that you are a "Christian" in preparation, instead of the usual "memorial candle is lit". Any ideas would be very grateful!